Confidence in children doesn’t come from constant praise or big rewards. It grows quietly, through feeling understood, supported and recognised in meaningful ways. Gentle recognition is about noticing effort, emotions and progress without placing pressure on performance. It might be acknowledging a child for trying something new, managing a difficult emotion, or completing a small task independently. Unlike loud rewards or comparisons, gentle recognition doesn’t create competition. It doesn’t say, “You’re better than others.” Instead, it says, “I see you.” This kind of recognition helps children develop internal confidence—confidence that isn’t dependent on external approval. When children are recognised for who they are and how they try, they learn to trust themselves. They feel safer making mistakes and more comfortable expressing their emotions. Over time, this builds resilience and self-awareness. Practical examples of gentle recognition include: Naming the effort you observed Offering calm, specific feedback Marking milestones with intention, not exaggeration Certificates, when used thoughtfully, can be a beautiful way to pause and acknowledge a moment. Not as a prize, but as a keepsake—a reminder that effort was noticed and valued. Confidence grows when children feel supported, not judged. Gentle recognition helps create that foundation, one small step at a time.